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Three top hints that he’s one of those sly guys who’ll just use you

Sadly, the world has some crappy people. These are the ones who’ll waste your time and will take from you whatever they want—and once their business is done, they’ll dump you. So, basically, they’re playing with your emotions and, if they’re lucky, with your purse as well.

Well, that is precisely why it so damn important for y’all ladies to differentiate between a nice guy and a crappy, selfish fella. And this post is giving y’all a few tips that’ll make you know who all belong to the selfish lot. But, first, let’s know the main factor why guys like playing with girls. Without ado, ladies, let’s explore the deets now.

Why does a lad like putting a damsel in distress?

We wish we could’ve said that guys become mean or sly unintentionally, but most of the times these assholes know what they’re doing. There’ll be a couple of guys who’ll be totally interested in your melons; for this, they’ll try extremely hard to meet up and fuck. And once their business between the sheets will be done, they’ll be less communicative until their snake will wiggle and will want to enter your crevice.

So if you don’t want to be one of those damsels in distress, you’ll have to be extra cautious about his intentions from the word go. And you shouldn’t care two hoots if he just wants to make out with you—don’t entertain such fellas. Now, let’s read the top hints that these self- centred guys give you—and this time they’re dropping these hints really unintentionally.

These signs will tell you that the guy isn’t a lover but a player

If you notice that the guy is just approaching you for sexual favours, then it’s better to jump ship before this stuff becomes nasty and serious. And the best part is that these signs are absolutely easy to identify. You have to look for them. So here’s the low-down.

He keeps on praising you

You may think that a compliment always comes from a place where there’s love, but that’s not always true. A compliment can come from a place that’s filled with pure lust. So if he’s praising you all the time, you just have to look for the areas of your personality that he’s liking. If he likes the way you dress, the colour of your hair, or the way your lips look, then he’s interested in your body and not your heart. If, however, he loves the way you treat other people or he appreciates the way you work so hard every day, then the chances that he’s a genuine guy are high.

He’s texting or calling you late at night

If this thing happens every single time, then you’re nothing but his booty call—and this is one of the biggest signs given by a player. That’s because if he’s only texting or calling you at night, how much could he care for you, huh? If, however, he’s always contacting you throughout the day, then he may be a great guy who’s concerned about you.

He doesn’t want to go out on a date with you in a public place

This is again a big explainer if he’s not taking you out and if he’s defending himself by saying that date nights are more romantic when they’re spent at home. Don’t let him fool you because the reality is that he’s playing with your emotions and your body. If he’s not making this so-called relationship public, then he’s just securing his chances with all the other girls. In a way, he’s just covering his own sweet ass.

So, now, you know what’s the real deal on guys who’re not lovers but lousy guys. If you have some other cool interesting tip in this regard, then do drop them in the comments section below. Stay safe.